How to Pray for the Lost: Interceding for Those Who Do Not Yet Know Christ
“The harvest truly is plentiful, but the laborers are few. Therefore pray the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into His harvest.”
— Matthew 9:37-38
📅 Published April 25, 2026
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📖 Matthew 9:37-38
How do you pray for the lost biblically?
To pray for the lost with biblical effectiveness, Scripture reveals several specific and powerful intercessions:
- Pray to the Lord of the harvest to send labourers — not just for the lost but for those who will reach them (Matthew 9:38)
- Pray for spiritual blindness to be removed — Satan blinds the minds of unbelievers (2 Corinthians 4:4)
- Pray for divine encounters — that specific believers would cross the path of specific unsaved people
- Pray by name — make a list of specific people and pray for them daily
- Pray the God's desire — He is not willing that any should perish (2 Peter 3:9)
- Pray for workers from within the harvest — that saved people would reach their own communities
Key Scripture: 2 Peter 3:9 — “The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.”
“Then He said to His disciples, The harvest truly is plentiful, but the laborers are few. Therefore pray the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into His harvest.”
— Matthew 9:37-38 (NKJV)
A Word from Sanmi Dawodu
If you're searching for how to pray for the lost, you are aligning yourself with the deepest desire of God's heart. Second Peter 3:9 declares it plainly: He is not willing that any should perish. Every prayer for the lost is a prayer in perfect alignment with the will of God.
Romans 10:1 is one of the most personally vulnerable statements Paul makes in all his letters. The man who could speak in logical, structured, comprehensive theological arguments — who wrote the most systematic exposition of the Gospel in Scripture — strips away every layer of intellectual defence and says simply: 'Brethren, my heart's desire and prayer to God for Israel is that they may be saved.' Heart's desire. Prayer to God. Specific burden. Specific people. This is the anatomy of evangelistic intercession.
Luke 15 — the chapter of lost things — is Jesus's most extended, most parabolic theology of God's posture toward the lost. The shepherd who leaves ninety-nine to find one (verses 3-7). The woman who sweeps the entire house to find one coin (verses 8-10). The father who runs down the road to meet one returning son (verses 20-24). In every parable the arithmetic is the same: the one who is lost is worth the total investment of the searcher's resources, attention, and joy. God does not love the lost at a discount. He loves the one who is lost with the same passionate totality that he loves the ninety-nine who are safe. And He calls His Church to pray with the same passion.
Spiritual Blindness: Why the Lost Cannot Simply Be Argued Into the Kingdom
2 Corinthians 4:4 reveals why intellectual argument alone rarely converts the lost: "The god of this age has blinded the minds of those who do not believe, lest the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine on them." Spiritual blindness is real and active. It is not removed by better arguments — it is removed by prayer that breaks the spiritual power behind it.
Yesterday in Day 32 we cried out for revival; today we intercede for the very souls that revival exists to reach. Continue through the 40 Days of Prayer series.
The Seeking Heart of God: He Is Not Willing Any Should Perish (2 Peter 3:9)
Genesis 3:9 records the first evangelistic question in Scripture, asked by God Himself in the Garden after the fall: 'Where are you?' The question was not a request for geographical information — God is omniscient. It was the first expression of the divine searching that would eventually take God all the way to the cross: the relentless, sacrificial, comprehensive seeking of the lost creature He had made in His image. Every mission statement, every evangelistic campaign, every prayer for the lost in human history is a human participation in this divine seeking that began in the Garden.
Luke 19:10 declares the mission purpose of the Incarnation: 'For the Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost.' Not to wait for the lost to find their way home — to seek them. The word 'seek' — 'zēteō' — is an active, deliberate, sustained searching. The father in the prodigal son parable ran — not walked — to his returning son. Jesus wept over Jerusalem's lostness (Luke 19:41). Paul had 'great sorrow and continual grief' in his heart for his lost Jewish kindred (Romans 9:2). The heart of the intercessor for the lost is calibrated to the heart of the God who seeks — and that heart aches, yearns, and prays with an urgency that ordinary religious comfort cannot produce.
The Eternal Weight of Lostness: Why This Intercession Is Urgent
John 3:16 — the most quoted verse in Scripture — contains within it the most sobering reality in human experience: 'that whoever believes in Him should not perish.' The word 'perish' — 'apollumi' — means to be utterly destroyed, to come to complete ruin, to be lost permanently. The alternative — 'everlasting life' — is equally permanent. The stakes of the evangelistic enterprise are not temporary discomforts and temporary blessings. They are eternal destinies. Every unsaved person you know is heading toward one of two permanent realities. There is no in-between. There is no second chance after death (Hebrews 9:27). The eternal weight of lostness is what gave Paul his continual grief, what drove Wesley to preach in the open fields, and what should make the prayer for the lost the most urgent intercession in the believer's life.
“Whose minds the god of this age has blinded, who do not believe, lest the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine on them.”
— 2 Corinthians 4:4 (NKJV)
Spiritual Blindness: Why Prayer Is the Primary Weapon in Evangelism
Second Corinthians 4:4 gives us the most comprehensive diagnosis of the lost person's spiritual condition: 'the god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, lest the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ… should shine on them.' The lostness of the unsaved is not simply intellectual — it is a condition of spiritual blindness actively maintained by demonic power. The person who cannot see the Gospel's truth is not merely unintelligent or morally inferior — they are a prisoner of darkness who cannot see because the enemy has covered their eyes.
This diagnosis transforms both the content and the strategy of evangelistic intercession. The unbeliever who rejects the Gospel is not primarily a debating opponent to be out-argued — they are a captive to be prayed free. Before the witness can be effective, the intercessor must engage in spiritual warfare: 'For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds' (2 Corinthians 10:3-4). The stronghold of spiritual blindness is pulled down not by better arguments but by Spirit-empowered, blood-applied, faith-filled intercession that asks God to open blind eyes.
The Role of Prayer in Evangelism: How the Harvest Is Won in the Prayer Closet
Every conversion in history has had an invisible dimension: the prayer that preceded the witness. Cornelius was praying when the angel appeared and sent him to find Peter (Acts 10:1-6). Lydia's heart was opened by the Lord as Paul spoke (Acts 16:14). The Philippian jailer's conversion came in the aftermath of Paul and Silas praying and singing at midnight (Acts 16:25-34). In every case, the human witness was accompanied, preceded, and empowered by prayer — either the intercessor's prayer or the seeker's own prayer. Evangelism without intercession is seed without rain: it may be genuinely sown, but the harvest waits for the water that only God can provide.
📋 Practical Prayer Lists: The most effective intercession for the lost is specific and named. Make a list: the five unsaved people closest to you — family, friends, colleagues, neighbours. Commit to praying for them by name, daily, for the next thirty days. Ask God to remove the spiritual blindness. Ask Him to send the right person with the right word at the right moment. Ask Him to create circumstances that will bring them to the end of themselves and the beginning of Him. And be available to be the answer to your own prayer.
Praying for Specific People by Name: The Most Effective Evangelistic Intercession
Perhaps the most painful category of the lost is the prodigal — the person who once knew God, who once sat in the Church, who once professed faith, and who has wandered into the far country of unbelief, moral failure, or spiritual indifference. Every family has them. Every church has lost them. And the parable of Luke 15 is specifically Jesus's description of how heaven feels about the prodigal: the father watching the road, the father running, the father's robe and ring and feast — all for the one who was lost and is found, who was dead and is alive again.
Praying for the prodigal requires both faith and patience. The delay of their return does not mean the prayer is not working. The father in the parable did not stop watching the road because his son was taking a long time to return. He watched every day. He ran the moment he saw the distant silhouette. The intercessor for the prodigal keeps watching, keeps praying, keeps the robe prepared, and trusts that the God who loves the lost child more than the intercessor does is working through the very consequences of the far country to bring the prodigal to himself — the moment of clarity that precedes the return.
Becoming a Labourer in the Harvest: From Intercession to Action
Some of those we pray for have heard the Gospel many times and consistently rejected it. The years of their hardness can discourage the intercessor — the temptation is to conclude that they are beyond reach, or that further prayer is futile. Acts 16:31 — 'Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household' — is the covenant promise that undergirds household intercession. Paul's own conversion demonstrates that even the most aggressive, most convinced, most violent opponent of the Gospel is not beyond the reach of a sovereign encounter with the risen Christ. The hardest heart is not harder than the God who formed it.
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Altar Call: How to Intercede for Those Who Do Not Yet Know Christ
Day 33 of Week 3 calls you forward — not into intellectual agreement with what you have read, but into actual surrender. Pray For The Lost is not a topic to study; it is an invitation to receive.
The harvest is plentiful. Be a labourer in it — beginning in your prayer closet. Tomorrow in Day 34: Pray for Children and Youth, we intercede for the next generation of labourers.
Receive what God has been speaking to you today. Pray the prayer below from your heart.
A Prayer for Pray For The Lost
Father, You are not willing that any should perish. I take hold of that will today and I pray in alignment with it for the people I know who do not yet know You.
Remove the spiritual blindness that the enemy has placed over their minds. Let the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ break through every barrier. Send labourers across their path — and let me be one of them.
I pray specifically for [names] today. Their salvation matters to You — and it matters to me. Do not let them perish. In the name of Jesus, Amen.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why does Jesus say 'pray the Lord of the harvest' in Matthew 9:38?
Jesus' instruction in Matthew 9:38 — to pray for labourers — is striking: the problem is not a shortage of lost people but a shortage of those sent to reach them. Prayer for the harvest is not just for the unsaved; it is for the commissioning of workers. God raises up and sends labourers through intercession.
What does 2 Peter 3:9 teach about praying for the lost?
2 Peter 3:9 declares God's desire: not willing that any should perish. Praying for a specific person's salvation is always praying in perfect alignment with God's will — there is never a risk that you are asking for something God does not want. The promise of 1 John 5:14-15 applies fully: when you ask according to His will, He hears you.
How do I pray specifically for an unsaved family member?
Pray by name, daily. Pray for: spiritual blindness to be removed (2 Corinthians 4:4), divine appointments with believers who will share the gospel (Matthew 9:38), conviction of sin by the Holy Spirit (John 16:8), removal of every spiritual stronghold that resists the gospel (2 Corinthians 10:4-5), and a specific person with the right relationship to reach them.
Can prayer actually lead someone to Christ?
Prayer does not save — Jesus saves. But prayer removes the spiritual barriers that prevent people from hearing and responding to the gospel. Throughout church history, sustained intercessory prayer has preceded dramatic conversions. E.M. Bounds wrote: 'The prayers of God's saints are the capital stock of heaven by which God carries on His great work upon the earth.'
How long should I pray for an unsaved person before giving up?
Do not give up. Luke 18:1 commands persistence — always pray and never lose heart. Monica prayed for her son Augustine for 17 years before his conversion. Many of the most dramatic conversions in history came after years of persistent intercession by one faithful believer who refused to stop. The harvest belongs to those who sow and water in tears (Psalm 126:5-6).
He is not willing that any should perish. Name them. Pray for them. Today.
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- Day 29:How to Pray for the Church: Interceding for the Body of Christ with Apostolic Power
- Day 30:How to Pray for Leaders: Interceding for Those God Has Placed in Authority
- Day 31:How to Pray for Nations: Standing in the Gap for Your Nation and the World
- Day 32:How to Pray for Revival and Spiritual Awakening: Crying Out for the Outpouring That Transforms Generations
- Day 34:How to Pray for Children and Youth: Interceding for the Next Generation with Prophetic Faith
- Day 35:How to Pray for Peace and Unity: Interceding for the Shalom Only God Can Give
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